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1. 

   janiee

   118 Points

   04/20/09

   hi juile
   thanks for the message,,i think i sent you one...if not had planed to
   yes jonathan gets the last test on the 29th april and we should find out then if he has ADHD
   i have freinds but only a few who i trust to tell things to
   do you konw where about in the uk that you will move to??
   do you feel better for makeing up your mind about the move????
   it is hard when you have freinds over!!you do feel it more when they leave..
   is warren looking forward to the move?
   sorry need to go mum has arrived for her tea
   take care..chat soonjane

   
   

   
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   janiee

   118 Points

   03/28/09

   hi that's a shame you have had a hard week,,
   it is hard when people say thing about are kids...they think my son has ADHD so i get so may thing said and letters home from the school,,so i can understand where you are coming from
   hope that you have a better week,,i am sure that your son is tyring to do his best
   take care and look after yourself
   thinking of you jane
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   Linda Edwards

   17 Points

   02/25/09

   Hi Julie
   
   I remember the message you sent me, and thank you for your supportive message now. I won't be going to the AGM as I have just had time off and it would be difficult to get more just now. Hope you have a good time it sounds like there is much support and understanding and everyone always seems to bring alot away from the AGM. Perhaps we will meet on another ocasion.
   
   Take care Linda
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4. 

   Logixlady

   10 Points

   12/15/08

   Hi Julie
   
   Yes it seems such a long time ago, I am no longer on the phones and it seems impossible that I finished in August - it sometimes seems like yesterday and yet other time months ago - rather like bereavement itself I suppose.
   
   Take care, try to take each day as it comes someone once told me an analogy of grief which is ' Think of grief and wading throough a river, sometimes when we are on the bank and the sun is shining it is Ok, its lapping around our feet but we are in control, it is manageable, then we may take a step forward suddently we are in upto our knees, it feels a little scary, but we can cope - we don't shout for help, occasionally we lose our footing we slip and it becomes scary we are out of control wading deep in thinking we are going under back into the early days of our bereavement, nothing feels good, it is unmanageable, we shout for help but not everyone can hear (only a few special people) we keep losing ground it is scary, we clamber for the safety of the bank again our head goes under and we think about giving ourselves to the swirling depths, then just as suddenly as we went under and without any warning we take a step forward and the water starts to recede suddenly it is back around our knees still not nice but we are beginning to feel in control again, then again as suddenly as before we are back with the water lapping at our feet still not happy about it but back seeing the other side of the river again, seeing the way forward to safety, never quite as nice as the bank we have come from but its a start.' This helps me to think beyond the frightening times when I am out of control, it still happens even 4 1/2 year on but much less and now I can begin to think of the beautiful special times we shared without the heart wrenching sadness that overwhelmed me in the beginning.
   
   Look after yourself ((((hugs))))
   
   Gill xx
   
   
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